output: avoid use of wlr_scene_output.WLR_PRIVATE.index
We were only using it to allow quick bitset comparisons of sets of
outputs (such as view->outputs). We can maintain our own bit IDs for
this purpose and avoid using the private wlroots field.
Note: from my reading of wlr_scene_output_create(), it appears to
always take the lowest unused index, resulting in aggressive re-use of
index values when outputs are disconnected and reconnected. I've tried
to make re-use as infrequent as possible. This could theoretically
reduce the chance of a mix-up in view_update_outputs(), although I'm
not aware of any practical scenario where it matters.