Add keepBorder `<theme>` option and enable it by default

Add keepBorder `<theme>` option and enable it by default

With the new keepBorder option enabled, the
ToggleDecorations action now has 3 states:

- the first time only disables the titlebar
- the second time disables the whole SSD
- the third time enables the whole SSD again

When the keepBorder action is disabled, the old 2-state
behavior is restored, e.g. the ToggleDecorations action
only toggles between on and off.

Fixes #813